Yes, this site is safe. The best part about these folks are they can be heated. Makes it a lot more realistic. The weight of the doll is heavier than I expected, which makes it a little harder to move her into positions but also more lifelike. The feel of the doll is realistic. Size of her female parts are made for a smaller endowed man than myself. Over all a quality made product. It takes a few days to get the off gassing of the material she is made of to dissapate. I found washing her and using baby powder to help remove the smell. It also helps in making her skin less sticky to the touch.