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(Popularity Rate: 33 ) What is the best way to hide a sex toy?
ore them in a silk or whatever bag the toys comes with. Keep them in a dry place away from direct sun and heat.
Sex Toy companies often sell storage containers. You can even go to the Container Store and find something that isn’t see through, and keep it at the top of your closet near the back of the shelf. Some of them even lock, if you’re that worried. mens sex doll A Mese Dollclean makeup bag will also store but keep them out of sight.
Some toys can also sit right out in the open and no one will know — vibrators that look like lipstick cases, RubMyDuckie massagers, Hitachi wand “massagers” (they really are back
(Popularity Rate: 25 ) Why hasn’t sex with sex dolls been classified as necrophiliac?
because a doll, never having been alive, cannot by definition be dead nor a person
(Popularity Rate: 90 ) How does matra’s and doll’s get energize? How long does it take? And do we have possible results to use these on someone whom we love? What is possible ratio if we use it for good things no hurting on anyone’s feeling?
nger a US Citizen. The renunciation is effective as of mens sex doll that moment, even if the final approval from Washington takes, weeks, months or even years (mine took 15 months).
As from existing obligations you have to the US Government, and a Future Dolllifetime ban on purchase of firearms in the US, as of that moment you are the same as anyone who was never a US Citizen. A “foreigner”.
If you wish to become a US Citizen again, then you must follow the same path as any foreigner (who had never been a US Citizen) would have to follow:
become a legal resident (green card holder). That would first require legal entry to the US for that purpose. ie: you would have to qualify based on your circumstances at the time you applied, the same as any other “foreigner”.
you would have to reside in the US for the required time for naturalization and take the citizenship test and Oath.
In other words, it is not quick, easy not guaranteed. Additionally, if the law which appears yet to be implemented which is designed to prevent those who renounce their US Citizenship for tax purposes (something which seems not to be defined) from ever re-entering the US would likely preclude all of the above (if implemented and affected the person in question).
Under the OLD rules that required those who renounced for tax reasons to continue filing tax returns for 10 years, seemed to have an “objective” standard by which the US Government would determine if one’s reason for renouncing was for “tax reasons” or not.
It was not based on whether the person announced to the State Department that was their reason or not (and the reason you renounce is not asked, though one can voluntarily make a statement). Instead the US Government made an analysis to determine if the renunciation made a significant reducing in the overall taxes paid by the individual. If so, the US Government considered the renunciation to be for “tax purposes.”
Under the current, unimplemented law to prevent re-entry to the US by those renouncing for “tax purposes,” I have no clue how they place to make that determination if they implement the law.
I think, for all practical purposes, if you are not sure that you want
(Popularity Rate: 36 ) Why would a married person need a sex toy?
a sex partner you don’t need to do it, right? Right? And sex toys are used to masturbate, so if you have a sex partner, you don’t need one, right?
Let’s deconstruct that.
First, masturbation is not a substitute for sex. Married people wank. People in multiple polyamorous relationships with multiple sex partners wank. Single people wank. Whether or not you wank has nothing to do with whether or not you’re married.
Second, people use sex toys…during sex. They’re not just for masturbation!
In fact, many categories of sex toy are specifically designed to be used with a lover
(Popularity Rate: 94 ) Should I ask my parents for a sex toy? I’m male BTW.
No. IF you feel the need for BBW Sex Dolla sex toy, you can buy or mens sex doll even make your own. Do you have access to a 3D printer? there you go; the sky’s the limit! 🙂
(Popularity Rate: 53 ) Can I present my wife with sex toys?
n her? You? Both?
What kind of toys? There’s so many!
I’ll just make some assumptions and deal out some basics…
There was once a time that I did not like sex toys. They made me feel uncomfortable. Sex toys were stigmatized, sleazy and ‘dirty’ objects to me, which is a complete 180 from where I am now. That was before I processed the sexual shame I had been programmed with as a younger person.
Now I LOVE sex toys and have quite a collection, a collection which includes machines as well as dildos and vibrators.
Sex toys can be an adventurous wonderful addition to sex. But for some people there is a stigma attached to sex toys. They can be seen as unnatural undesirable alien objects to bring into the activity of sexual intimacy.
Provided there isn’t an aversion to them needing to be addressed and or acknowledged in order to proceed, here are a few tips you might find helpful…
There are lots of toy review sites and reviewers, my commentary will focus on other aspects.
Acquiring the toys;
Will you buy something on your own based on what you think your partner will enjoy, having done some investigation? Some partners may prefer this not necessarily wanting to participate in the purchase process.
Will you invite your partner to embark on a sexy ‘treasure hunt’? You could research together online sources or maybe venture out to a local sex shop.
The sex toy biz has blown up. Depending on your location there could be some very nice stores to peruse. This activity in and of itself could be a fun adventure. Though if your local resources are limited, if the environment of the shop could be overwhelming even a turn off, or if your partner wouldn’t enjoy such a thing, an online search might be the preferred.
Though let the buyer beware! There are online mens sex doll sex toy stores that are not reputable and you can get screwed- but not the fun way. Do a review google search of any online venue before purchasing.
One of the benefits of going to a store is that many stores have test models you can feel and handle before purchase (which haven’t been used for sex lol)
Some tips on toys from my experiences with them:
Purchasing toys that aren’t so loud if they vibrate. Some toys are very quiet while others can be pretty annoying. When they’re loud (buzzing) that can be a big turn off or be distracting.
I love vibrating toys! The more settings on the toy offers more options as far as intensity and rhythm goes. Some people need more intense vibes while others just need a minimum to get where they need to go. Variety in the intensity during sex can be a wonderful thing.
I suggest some enjoyable music playing that will help cover the buzzing if the toys do vibrate.
USB charging cordless toys are very common these days but some toys plug into a wall outlet. Some people are annoyed Silicone Sex Dollby the cord of an electrical powered toy. I have a Hitachi vibrator that I am in love with, that plugs into the wall (frankly speaking I think whoever invented the vibrator should have received the Nobel peace prize but that’s just me) and I have an extension cord on hand so I don’t have to worry that my reach will be limited by the cord length- which is something to consider with toys that plug in. It’s a drag when the cord doesn’t reach as you’d like. Otherwise a great many vibe toys are battery or USB charged and don’t involve cords.
Warm any insertable toys up with a heating pad. Warm toys feel much nicer than a cold toy (though sometimes a cold toy does feel good depending on the play involved!) Be careful that they aren’t too hot. Glass toys can be warmed in hot water. (Btw, I even warm up my paddles and floggers).
Be prepared by having enough lube on hand. I’m a big fan of lube. At times, the more lube the better!
I use both Silicone lube AND water based, often together during sex. Not mixed but used in different ways. Each has its own pros and cons and uses during sex. Some toys feel better with water based lube.
I put condoms on all my toys so I don’t have to worry about using the wrong lube for a toy. This also helps with clean up. You shouldn’t use silicone lube on naked silicone toys because silicone lube degrades silicone toys.
Speaking of lube…
Lube:
Water-based: Water is the main ingredient in water based lube and is water soluble, making it easy to clean off the body and sheets. Water-based lubes are compatible with all sex toys. Water based lube tends to get ‘sticky’ with friction. Just add more of it as needed.
Silicone-based: Silicone lubes have a wonderful silky feel and are hypoallergenic. But do not use with silicone toys (unless you use a condom on the toy) because silicone lube will ruin silicone toys; it breaks down the surface and degrades the toys. Silicone lube can stain darker colored sheets. Silicone lube can also be used to shine up latex clothing btw. Silicone lube is often preferred by people who are prone to urinary tract infections.
Oil-based: Oil-based lubes such as coconut and olive oil can be used with toys and feel great on the body, but are not safe to use with latex condoms as they make the latex prone to ripping, this increases the risk of pregnancy or STIs. Oil based lubes are harder to clean up and can stain sheets and clothing. Great for massages!
To avoid: Unless you know for certain that a scented lube, flavored lube, or lubes that have hot/cold sensations (which may contain cinnamon) wont bother you or your partner, I would avoid them. Its also advisable to avoid petroleum based and synthetic oils like Vaseline. Petroleum based are not water soluble and can host bacteria causing infections.
Size matters! Where is it going? Vaginal? Anal? If we are talking anal, and someone new to toys, I like to start with a smaller vibrating ‘bullet’ or similar plug. Not too big. A size that will prepare a person initially, giving them time to adjust to the sensations and feelings. Ease into it. If they’ve never played anally before, something too big or too rough can possibly ruin anal play for them. Too small isn’t necessarily fun either. Many people start smaller and work up to bigger.
Starting out brand new I suggest getting sizes that match your size (I am assuming you are a man, forgive me if I am wrong) or even slightly smaller depending on what the toy is made of and where it’s going. The anatomy and comfort of your partner will be the determining factor.
Too big, too small or the wrong shape for the unique anatomy involved won’t be fun.
Finding the right size is so important. When I go to some toy stores it seems to me that everything is pretty big, even over the top big for many people. I’ve acquired many big toys from people who bought items that were way too large for them to use. I mean WAY TOO LARGE. Their fantasies were bigger than their ‘parts’. I keep these on hand for psychological play- to scare people (laughing).
Imagine being bound and helpless on a spanking bench in an ‘on all fours’ position and I walk up with a tray of dildos that are absolutely gigantic.
All in good fun!
Texture of toys and how they feel- these days toys are made of much nicer softer materials than they used to be as the norm.
There are dildos and vibrators which are very realistic to what a penis actually feels like.
A flesh penis is ‘smushy’ to a degree, even when ‘rock hard’, unlike a stern hard plastic material that will resist the body such as the vibrators from the 80’s. yikes! while some people may prefer a toy that is hard as a rock (literally), I’ve found that a majority of people I’ve played with prefer a softer material that ‘compromises’ a bit, just as flesh does.
Sex toy manufacturers have come out with some amazing toys that are soft enough and hard enough simultaneously. If you go to a store such as the chain ‘Fascinations’ you’ll be able to feel and examine toys before investing.
Cleaning your toys is very important too! I also like to have an easy to clean and sterilize container that I place toys in as I use them, instead of having them laying just anywhere, especially if I’m using a bunch of toys in a scene.
A google search will harvest tons of info on cleaning whatever toys you have and there are specifics to be aware of depending on the toy.
Getting down to business…
I’m all about details. Details such as ambiance, lighting, music, temperature, smells, etc.
I like to create an environment that feels safe, sensual, familiar, warm, and comforting which allows my partner to feel more secure about exploring into new territory.
Introducing toys into the erotic play…
Perhaps suggest an erotic massage where you eventually add in a massaging toy that vibrates. This may be a good way of introducing a sex toy.
Asking for feedback and reassuring your partner as you go. Communication is the most important part of the process. I’ve seen many couples who don’t give each other enough feedback during sex. Often due to not wanting to make a partner feel awkward.
Ease into it. Start out slow. Don’t go deep at first. Take your time. Even teasing if appropriate. Always observing your partner’s responses. If they are a quiet lover- ask.
Don’t assume. Ask. Ask more. Keep asking until you are certain based on your partner’s responses and reactions.
How does this feel? Is it too deep? Not deep enough? Faster? Slower? Are you enjoying this? I want you to tell me if you aren’t enjoying this. Your satisfaction is what is most important to me, not using this toy. If the toy doesn’t give you pleasure I don’t want to use it.
The more you communicate the more effective you’ll eventually get at non verbal communicators; better able to sense and intuitively read the situation and responses. But unless you are psychic you gotta start somewhere and pay close attention.
Make it fun. Light hearted. It’s a learning experience.
A partner also has the right to say no and to not be interested in using toys. I’m answering this without knowing so many important details.
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