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(Popularity Rate: 67 ) As a doctor or nurse, have you ever caught your patients doing something inappropriate?
fter a motorcycle crash – she had been riding pillion behind her boyfriend.
I was there the night she came in, she had obviously been on a date and was beautifully made up and dressed for a pleasant night out. Her long brown hair was splayed over the bed. She looked like a model that someone had put in a hospital bed for a photo shoot.
She had only very minor visible injuries – but the major injury was that her neck was broken. She had a ‘stiffneck’ collar on and it was digging her earrings into the side of her neck painfully. My first job was to get these off her ears for her comfort.
She was initially hard work to look after; all work with her, including bathing, required that she be ‘log rolled’ – with myself grasping her shoulders and my forearms clamping her head, with the head and neck maintaining alignment and position so as not paralyse her when she was rolled by 2 other staff.
Her secondary treatment was the installation of a ‘Halo’ screwed into her skull, with traction pulling her neck toward the top of the bed.
This necessitated weeks of bed rest, lying on her back, with log rolling for all care.
She was a nice kid, a little younger than me. I was assigned to her on each shift I worked and was very protective of her. My most painful memory was that on one of the night shifts when one of the male assistants (we had no female assistants) who was helping me log roll her for a sheet change and wash made the comment: “We could do anything we want to you like this.” Spare me from f##king idiots like this creep. I complained and we didn’t see him again in her care – but I think the damage had been done. She was terrified, and felt totally vulnerable, which she was.
Over the next few weeks she became more anxious, probably she was becoming depressed. But I was too unaware of mental health in those days to recognise the signs.
One day I popped down to her bed to let her know that she had visitors. Her curtains were drawn. I called her name and put my head through the curtains. She was obviously masturbating under the sheets. This wasn’t something I had seen before in my short nursing career, and I wasn’t quite prepared for it. She said, “It helps me relax. Please tell them to wait. I just need to finish this.” My reply, something like, “OK, I’ll stall them for a while – I’ll pop back in later.”
It went ok, I had the visitors wait while a ‘procedure’ was done. Then shortly thereafter answered her call bell and opened the curtains for her. Later we spoke about it and I let her know that I had no concerns about it. I could just pull the curtains for her – but I did counsel her that I wasn’t sure how some of the other nurses might take it – so try not to make it too obvious.
Inevitably a few days later I heard a female nurse talking in the tea room about what that “dirty bitch” was doing “all the time.” She had made the mistake to ask the wrong nurse to pull her curtains for her. Some of the female nurses were pretty awful to the patient about it. Most didn’t care, however.
Empathy is often lacking in some health professionals, It was a good lesson for me.
On the bright side I saw the patient the day she left hospital – she sought me out to say thanks. She look
(Popularity Rate: 70 ) What did the Lovee doll say after “zip it up zip it down” (almost 20 years ago)?
cause of who and what they symbolize. However, people of the west are calling them “babushka dolls” instead of the original matryoshka; and although the term babushka is still associated with Russia, the name behind that holds a completely different meaning.
Babushka means “grandmother” or “old woman”. With that being said, naming the nesting dolls as babushka dolls clearly give out the incorrect meaning of the Russian wooden toys. The dolls represent a mother’s fertility, so, it was not a fit for them to be called as such. However, some suggest that the dolls were erroneously called babushka dolls because of their handkerchiefs, as the piece of clothing is really called a babushka. Today, with the evolution of the appearance of the nesting dolls as they characterize modern people with modern attire, it wouldn’t make sense to keep calling them babushka.
Nevertheless, it is encouraged to refrain from identifying the nesting dolls as babushka dolls. Their original name “ma
(Popularity Rate: 71 ) Why do women have no problem with dildos but complain about female sex dolls?
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First I’m going to establish some facts and personal background before actually answering it.
I am a victim of childhood abuse, both by confirmed pedophiles and abusers who abuse children. I’ve written about this extensively and some of the writing is in my profile. I am not a pedophile or anyone who has or would ever sexually abuse children.
Pedophilia, or a sexual attraction to prepubescent children, is something that some people are, although estimates of exact percentages vary. It isn’t something someone chooses to be, it can’t be conditioned into them or out of them. It’s very likely, given what we know, that some people are simply born pedophiles and there is nothing to be done about that.
Most sexual abuse of children is not perpetrated by pedophiles, but garden variety abusers who target children because children are easy victims.
Now that we have that out of the way, let’s look at the goals here.
The problem with our society presently when it comes to pedophiles is that we simply demonize anyone who is a pedophile. They make a great punching bag because anyone who is attracted to children is obviously a bad person, right? The fact that they can’t help their attraction is completely ignored and we lump people who are pedophiles but don’t actually act on it in any way (including in viewing child pornography) in with those that do. Because of that stigma around pedophiles, there isn’t a lot of solid research on it and what research there is heavily depends on offending pedophiles as subjects. Pedophiles who don’t offend rarely take part in studies because of the stigma around being a pedophile, so we have a limited sample size.
As a society when it comes to dealing with pedophiles, the goal is and should be simply the reduction of harm to children. In other words, the goal should be whatever it takes so that less children are abused. If you look at it from that perspective, the answer when it comes to sex dolls that look like prepubescent children, is that if in the end it reduces harm to actual children, we should allow them.
As for whether or not they actually reduce harm to children, we simply don’t have enough data to say one way or the other. Evidence seems to suggest that it does make a pedophile less likely to offend if they have access to some kind of way to relieve themselves sexually like with a doll. There isn’t any evidence to suggest any kind of escalation of activity like using a doll would make someone more likely to abuse children. Similar to how massive amounts of evidence shows that people who play violent video games are actually less likely to be violent in real life and as porn use goes up people are less likely to commit sexual assault, we can extrapolate that people are less likely to act on their urges with a real child if they have some kind of ethical outlet.
The main way the pedophiles who do offend actually end up offending is by viewing and collecting child pornography. This hurts children and is wrong as well because you need to abuse real children to produce it. So having an outlet that doesn’t abuse children would make all of those pedophiles that fall into the trap of child pornography less likely to actually do that. This leads us to the logical conclusion as well, where if we could create child pornography without hurting children, would that be allowed as well? As animation gets better, this might someday be possible. These are thorny ethical issues that must be addressed.
The thing is, personally it bothers me and disgusts me. The idea of someone using a sex doll that looks like a child and watching animated porn of people having sex with children Is repulsive (and personally triggering to me). However, we have to remember that we have a goal in mind here and that goal is: fewer children molested and harmed. So if something that bothers and disgusts us but doesn’t hurt any children will make it so that less actual children are harmed, I’m all for it.
So in terms of whether or not they should be illegal I am leaning towards no. They should be allowed and we should do more scientific studies to make sure they actually do what we hope they do: make pedophiles less likely to offend. I would probably be in favor of them being prescribed by a psychiatrist or something like that, who would monitor the person using them and make sure they weren’t going to hurt a real child. However, this is outside of my wheelhouse.
Do they encourage and normalize a cultural climate that condones child molestation and pedophila? Why or why not?
It would in no way create something that condones child molestation. There is no slippery slope here. This has been brought up in countless other industries. Do movies and games that show violence condone real violence? All evidence points to no. In fact, healthy humans are able to separate fantasy from reality and that’s why we are able to enjoy fantastical things that we would never condone in reality. There is strong evidence to suggest that having these fantasies prevents people from doing immoral things in real life. This is why rape fantasies are okay, but real rape isn’t. It goes on and on.
As far as normalizing and condoning pedophilia, we need to normalize it in that we need to recognize that pedophilia or people who are pedophiles are normal and that they exist. We need to normalize their sexuality and help them not act on it. This is very important. Normalizing sexual abuse of children is not something we should ever do (and again, no evidence to suggest that child sex dolls do that). Normalizing pedophiles acknowledging their attractions and getting help to prevent them from hurting children is something we need to do.
Summary: As someone who has been sexually abused as a child, I am willing to support anything that prevents another child from being sexually abused. If that means sanctioning and providing child sex dolls a
(Popularity Rate: 83 ) How fake or real is the teleporting/copying technology from the Elementary TV show episode “Uncanny Valley of the Dolls”?
moon. Those were on film as far back as movies have been made.
Star Trek is one of the biggest contributors to modern technology. Automatic doors, laser scalpels, cell phones, tricorders (there is an app for that), Google Glass, tablets, artificial intelligence, computer software and programs, 3-D food printing(replicator). The list goes on from there. Check out the History channels “How William Shatner Changed the World.” And there is more on the way, thanks to that show and movies.
Then there are other things we may not think of, but are here today after being in film. Genetic testing and DNA testing being wide spread using small samples and many varieties of samples was seen in Gattica (sp?). Soylent is a food product now strap on for penis (Soylent Green), even if it is not made with people as an ingredient. Star Wars gave us Hovercrafts and flyers (there are some very ep VII flyers out ther eif you have the money.
Batman and James Bond have given us smaller listening devices, smaller recording devices and other things. Superman introduced us to holograms.
Eureka! gave us the “smart drones” and lab grown meat. The Twilight Zone introduced us to plastic surgery being common Real Dollplace, so that we could have the same features as everyone else. Blade runner g
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the time was Molly. Her hair was restrained and easy to care for, but not as much of a pain in the derriere to fix if the ribbons came off as Kirsten’s could be. Her eyes were a beautiful shade of gray and her outfits were all absolutely adorable.
I also loved her story, about living during the war times and getting to know a new friend. It was a story of learning to live with change and make do with what you had and a story of acceptance despite the differences the girls had. Molly was a realistic character for a nine to eleven year old girl to read about – a little girl whose brothers drove her batty on a daily basis, getting used to a stranger living in her house and having to eat foods she didn’t enjoy so much.
But as a current collector, the choice for me is harder. My current favorite is 2022 Girl of the Year Luciana Vega. She has the ever-adorable Josefina mold face, her hair is short and straight (very easy for a first time doll owner to care for as opposed to Becca’s curls or Tenney’s hair), and she’s wanting to be an astronaut, so she has the galaxy/outer space theme going on, which makes it very fun to make accessories and clothes for her. My Luciana is currently wearing a beautiful galaxy themed gown and matching jewelry. She’s beautiful and her story is sweet too, a story of learning how to be a team player at space camp isn’t as deep and serious as living in war times, but it is easy for a lot of kids to relate to.
As an aside, MaryEllen is also a wonderful doll. She’s unique in that her doll reflects a lot of her story just as she comes, without buying all of her accessories and clothes.
Ellie’s bangs look wonky and crooked when you look at her — that’s because she cut them herself in the story. What you’re seeing is the result of Ellie trying to make herself look special and unique. —And her legs are two different molds, one’s knee cap is higher than the other as a result of Ellie having a weak leg from a bout of Polio she suffered at seven years old.
Her doll is the first in years to so accurately ref